Schadenfreude: The German Word English Desperately Needed
Why does watching someone slip on a banana peel feel so good? The Germans have a word for it — and English straight-up borrowed it.
The Word English Couldn't Resist Stealing
Here's a wild fact: English has words for almost everything. Except the guilty pleasure you feel when something bad happens to someone who probably deserved it. For centuries, we had no word for that.
So we borrowed one from German. And honestly? It's perfect.
The Word
Schadenfreude (SHAH-den-froy-duh)
Noun. The pleasure derived from another person's misfortune.
Your rival trips on stage at the awards ceremony. Your ex's new relationship implodes. The overconfident quiz team buzzes in wrong. That feeling — warm, slightly shameful, completely human — is Schadenfreude.
Origin Story
German is a language that loves to mash words together like Lego bricks. Schadenfreude is two pieces snapped tight:
- Schaden — damage, harm, injury (from Old High German scado)
- Freude — joy, pleasure, delight (from Proto-Germanic frawaz, meaning "happy")
Literally: "harm-joy."
The word has been in German since at least the 18th century, but it exploded into English consciousness in the 1970s–80s. By the time Avenue Q wrote a Broadway song called "Schadenfreude" in 2003, it was fully naturalized. It now appears in the Oxford English Dictionary without any italics — no longer a foreign guest, just a resident.
Fun Fact
German has a counterpart to Schadenfreude called Mitfreude — joy felt because of someone else's good fortune (basically the opposite of envy). It never caught on in English. Make of that what you will about human nature. 🙃
Psychologists have actually studied Schadenfreude extensively. It spikes most strongly when the person suffering is seen as a rival or as someone who had it coming. So it's not pure meanness — it's justice with a smile.
Use It
Short sentences to get the word in your mouth:
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"Ich fühle Schadenfreude, wenn mein Bruder seine Hausaufgaben vergisst." (I feel Schadenfreude when my brother forgets his homework.)
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"Das ist reines Schadenfreude — und ich schäme mich kein bisschen." (That is pure Schadenfreude — and I'm not ashamed at all.)
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"Schadenfreude ist nicht nett, aber sehr menschlich." (Schadenfreude is not nice, but very human.)
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